everyday with Joleen

Previous post sound very sad. The reason is coz my grandma had pass away on Tuesday morning.

I once told a friend. Its still ok to have financial crisis or car got into trouble and all that. But my grandma pass away i will really sad coz she din accept Christ.

Things has been strange coz I suddenly thought of her and prayed for her on previous Saturday. I called her for the first time On Saturday morning trying to tell her that I am praying for her.. But I can’t understand what she say coz she already very weak in speaking i guess. Mana tahu next few days she pass away.

Other than grieving over her death, I also concern a lot about how am I going to go through the funeral?Will I be scolded coz I am not following them? mm somemore 1 of my aunt she work in temple for like her life time. Sure kena scolded badly.

So John help me buy 12 white roses to let me use it in case needed.

I thank God for protecting my from being scolded by my relative. My lovely dad tell my gugu(my aunt) that since I cannot worship or hold stick, so I pay respect by putting flowers. My gugu nv scold me but she hug me like she is so touch HAHAA… then she needed help in collecting money (白金）.. I faster volunteer myself to do that.. (after that I realize hor not many ppl willing to do this job one). So i no need to follow them for chanting and everything.

In a way I am very happy and overjoy when I know that one of my uncle’s wife accepted Christ last year. I found her and talk to her.. she share that when her family got into trouble, she say she 拜很多神不过月拜越乱。She has no peace and some Christian friends share gospel to her and brought her to church. Now she has baptized too. Now sometimes her house will open for cg and encourage her daughter to join Youth gathering in church too.

I am very glad that I have teman there HOHO.. at least I won’t look too awkward standing alone while ppl are worshiping with sticks.

My grandma funeral last for 5 days, there are some interesting thing happen along the way.

One of the night, the policemen come to visit the house for 4 times.. not that they know my grandma. Is coz they wan to check whether we have any illegal meeting or gambling or not. then so happen.. THEY ARe gambling (well other than CNY gathering, funeral can be another good time). so they like react very fast and close everything fast.

I was told that the police even walk in to the house and check after me n my family left.

That few days we stayed in hotel (i felt guilty coz family should stay in the house and 守夜). Oh i forget to mention only me and my dad were there that time, my mom reach Kedah on Friday morning. My sis and bro got final exam that they can’t attend the funeral. We had change total 3 hotels in the few days coz erm.. the Hotels there are mostly fully booked for donno wat reason.

My dad did this, we stayed in 2 star hotel for first night.. The name is grand Chrystal. He thinks that the curtain not strong enough to cover the sun so he use our blanket to cover the window. HAHA.

I have nothing to do in the day time coz we only go to help out the funeral in the evening (weird dad). So I walk around the hotel area since my dad haven wake up. I walk to my primary school.. yey.. miss the school.

oh my primary school.. I love my primary school HAHA.

well if u notice there is one time a news that a roof top fall on a teacher and he died.. Thats my primary school…Well i find it unbelievable coz I tot the roof top from my primary school are solid and firm. another Eunique things is the 2nd floor classes don have door and window. ITs only have curtains.

So when raining ah.. the class room will get wet LOL, wind blow our papers will fall away and the lady teacher will very scared their skirt will fly high LOL.

okok back to the topic.

we get to eat different local cuisine.

my favorite “lala”, hardly find in KL lo.. but everywhere in KEdah… I miss this small size “lala” and it actually very cheap only. Weird why can’t find in KL. Can get in Klang once a while also.

the fishes are very fresh! donno why.. I like one of the dish… it is actually curry +asam fish.. so got Curry and asam taste.. WOW nice… and it is not spicy… hehehe

Kedah ppl like to cook dishes with asam coz ppl here generally like spicy and sour.. (like me MUAHAHA).

2nd day we change to Sentosa Hotel (5 star hotel). Well i donno how to determine hotel good or not. Just know I cant find a computer that can online is very miserable T.T… so i watch astro and read novel..

my mom arrive thats why we add one more bed lol. well.. this is Star City Hotel.. I think the interior are better, and facilities better too. At least i find a computer with internet in the lobby. finally I get to online after few days there. T.T Just that the pc is seriously slow =.= I wonder what is the spec of the pc, obviously the pc already kena virus too haha.

Oh i forget to mention, my dad ask me to check out from the sentosa hotel and walk to star city hotel -.-! coz he went to pick up my mom and rest in star city hotel without me. (well coz im sleeping lol).

so i take my laggages and bags n walk … pity me hahaha.. Oh those hotels are jus nearby la actually. Just i don like to walk pass those big rubbish bin and dogsss at the roadside T.T

On saturday morning we go to the memorial center

the place very nice.

Actually the pathway very nice and there are many statues. Just that I din shoot the photo.. We come again on sunday morning to send my grandma erm… ashes ? to the Siam temple.

after everthing finish. we go back to KL.

my cousins, (we have muslim,buddhist and me Christian there). Funny things is even though Kedah is muslim state, well ppl easily can find pork everywhere and u know… I saw Malays eating in Chinese restaurant that sell pork XD.

The 2 little gals standing infront are Malays Muslim. =) abit look like One Malaysia hor.. Suddenly I miss Yashmin Ahmad. LOL…

definitely I am grieving over my grandma’s death. But is ok, gonna move on =)